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Why (and where) would women travel together? Just women - no men. A
trip could be as simple as a weekend getaway with girlfriends to pick up a
new handbag in the city. Or the desire could come from a deeper
motivation... to learn, explore, experience, eat, share, exercise,
anything, without having to take care of anyone but yourself,
joined
by women who would never question why that's important to you.
Travel companies that specialize in women-only travel understand. Many
have developed programs that appeal to everyone, regardless of age or
physical fitness, bringing together women who choose to spend a few days
of their life living and traveling against the grain - stress-free.
Women-only vacations tend to be unique, thoughtful, and purposeful.
Most women would have to compromise at best if they tried to drag a
husband or son or any other man on a week's vacation filled with yoga,
healthy food, afternoon tea, and moments for meditation.
While this kind of travel may sound contrived at first, it really can
offer an experience you may never have otherwise. Bring your mother,
sister, friend, or go by yourself and enjoy a small group setting, without
the all-too-real safety risks of being a woman traveling alone. Women of
all ages and interests travel together - and for all reasons. Recent
college grads looking for a quick trip before entering the real world
(file this one away - a women-only package tour also makes a great
graduation gift), photography buffs, women who are trying to get in shape,
women who want to learn to whitewater raft, women who are trying to lose
weight, or renew their faith.
While some tours are centered on specific themes, others simply allow
travelers to experience whatever comes their way, in a setting and with a
group designed to support vitality and relaxation. Even an introvert can
enjoy a group itinerary, given adequate time and space to wander and roam.
More independent and adventurous types can easily find trips packed with
activities that match their personalities, and less adventurous types who
want to take on a new challenge can relax in a group that helps you build
confidence through accomplishment, sans the competition.
Because of this, traditional "guy" activities are also common trip
themes. You can finally learn, through professional instruction (usually
by women), how to ride a horse, deep sea fish, kayak, or mountain bike.
When you get back, you can practice your new skills... when you finally,
officially know what you are doing. Tour operators are typically prepared
for all skill levels from novice to adept, and the all-female environment
provides a comfortable ambience to learn or enhance a new activity.
Shopping, yoga, hiking, rafting, horseback riding, culinary training,
humanitarian work - you can do practically anything with a group of women
and a reputable tour operator who takes care of all the details. The
hardest part of a trip might be simply figuring out what you want to do -
what would light you up and make every dollar you spend and every day away
from work or family or home... worth it.
Talk to a good travel consultant about your budget, all the places you
want to see and the experiences you want to have, and together you can
narrow down the choices to find the perfect trip. Luckily, travel agents
are familiar with tour operators and can make this process quick and
painless, pointing you to an appropriate company with a good reputation
for quality and value. If you want to take a daughter or niece along,
check with your travel consultant early on to find a tour company that
allows minors.
As a relevant aside, a "tour" may provoke an image of a big slow bus,
but these days a tour, and using a tour operator, is a very different
experience. In addition to planning the entire trip and providing you with
a network of other women, a good tour company will also hand-pick hotels,
restaurants, and activities perfect for this kind of intimate travel.
Because of their relationships with destinations and guides, you often pay
far less for a package than you would booking the components separately.
If you want a group of women to join you, remember that even adventure
tours often have reduced rates for companions who would be just as happy
relaxing and roaming the wilderness independently - just ask. On that
note, if you have enough women committed to a trip, or if you are willing
to break from a time-tested itinerary, you can ask the tour company to
customize any aspect of the trip, from the type of food you eat to where
you visit and how you get there, and they can usually accommodate.
For those who book the trip solo, you can waive a standard single
supplement if you agree to share a room. Since it's an all-women trip,
your odds for being matched, and matched to someone with fairly
predictable tastes, are better than ever.
One thing to note about many women's tours is that because of their
specialized itineraries and traveler grouping, they often require you to
book and give a cancellation notice far in advance.
Before you go, your travel consultant will make sure to assist you with
any passport or visa documentation that's needed, in addition to passing
along packing lists if your trip requires special clothing or equipment.
Your agent will also cover travel and health insurance with you, and other
costs that may not seem obvious, like tips (drivers, guides, porters, and
maids all have varying tip rates, based on where you travel) and taxes.
You should have a good idea of exactly how much the trip will cost,
leaving you to determine how much spending money you can budget.
Finally, if your trip includes a long flight, start your pampering
early by packing appropriately. Create a little kit for the plane that
includes lip balm, a dry washcloth in a baggie (you can pour hot water
into the bag at the end of the flight and take the cloth out for a warm
refresher), a small toothbrush and toothpaste, a travel size bottle of
your favorite hand lotion, a sleep mask, earplugs, a pair of socks, eye
drops, and water. If you are traveling with friends, consider making extra
kits as a thoughtful gift.
Also remember candles and essential oils for your hotel room and bath,
and don't forget a journal, if you want to use one. Journal or not, you
may want to purchase disposable cameras and video cameras from a
drugstore, so you won't have to worry about keeping track of expensive
equipment. When you return, you can request a DVD and CD of the video and
images that you can transfer to your computer.
You really won't have to do much else, other than look forward to the
experience. While you are there, you can relax. Travel helps everyone, men
and women alike, explore and experience the world we all share and
recognize the limitations we often place on our bodies and minds. A
women-only trip can provide the rest, motivation, excitement, and
introspection you don't easily find in daily life, leaving you energized
and refreshed. Contact your travel agent today and find out how simple it
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